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I M Miserable In My Marriage

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Despite being in an unhappy marriage there are reasons you are willing to stay. We are both near retirement age have been married for fourteen years. I M Unhappy In My Relationship But I Love Him I was deeply unhappy but I stayed because my parents had divorced and I vowed to not give up on my marriage no matter what. I m miserable in my marriage . I dont want to get a separation or divorce. Im stuck in an unhappy emotionally barren marriage. I am in process of divorcing after 35 years. Fixing an unhappy marriage is a difficult forward-aspiring effort. It is a commission based job. We went to a few unproductive pre-marriage counseling sessions but one thing from it sticks out in my mind. The counselor asked us why we wanted to get married and my first gut instinct was I dont know. Does a betrayal hang over the marriage. I swing between feeling confused enraged ambivalent distressed sad angry frustrated upset embarrassed and depressed. But over time I coul...